The phrase may be a cliché, but most clichés are overused for a reason: they’re true. Haters are always going to be waiting on the sidelines with their arms cocked, ready to throw their 2 cents in your face whether you asked for it or not. If you’re going to embark on an adventure that goes against the grain or isn’t quite traditional, naysayers are an unfortunate part of the package.
I learned that lesson very quickly when I began this journey. I’ve had a passion for fitness and health my entire life. When I turned my attention towards living a toxin-free lifestyle and decided to build a business around it, I received a surprising amount of push-back from those around me. It came in the form of backhanded compliments and “curiosity” but what I heard more often than not was negativity and closed-mindedness.
“When did you become such a hippie?”
“Everything causes cancer nowadays, why bother?”
“You’re going to die eventually, just eat and do what you want!”
“I don’t think this business with be anything but a hobby for you.”
“Do you really expect it to support you?”
In the beginning, hearing these things stung. I wasn’t sure how to respond in a way that would express my passion for what I was doing. With time, something changed within myself. I started to see what my family’s future will be like if I stay true to my dreams. It’s beautiful. And it’s achievable. With that clear vision my posture changed, too. When I hear these things now, I can smile and respond with confidence. I’m able to stand tall knowing who I am and that what I’m doing matters.
Everyone should be able to live their dream, no matter what that means. Settling for anything less is a waste of what you were put on this earth to do. So, I’m going to put my whole heart into my passion and run towards my goals. The people that are meant to be on this journey with me be there running with me. I’ve seen first hand that this business fosters relationships and brings wonderful people together. I’ve found my tribe and I’m sticking with them.
And as for everyone’s 2 cents? I’m pocketing it and taking it to the bank. (;
Tisserand Tea Tree: This one just sucks. I rolled it on and ended up with sopping wet armpits that got all over my clothes, and then it basically just absorbed into my skin as soon as it dried. It’s advertised as 24-hour protection, which is just not true at all. I literally felt like I smelled seconds after putting it on. Boooo.
Homemade: Try as I might, I haven’t successfully made a DIY version that I’ve liked yet. I’ve tried a few different recipes but haven’t found one that has made the time and effort worth it. It seems to always come out too hard, making it really difficult to rub on, or too soft which leads to a mess. The upside here is that you can use some of your favorite essential oils to personalize the smell. If anyone has a recipe that they love, please share!
Jason: I’ve tried a couple different scents of this brand and have had varied success. Although they all smell really yummy, some of the scents just don’t cut it. My personal favorite smell was the tea tree. When using this one I made sure it came with me in my bag so I could reapply a few times, but I never felt like I smelled which is always a plus! It doesn’t leave much residue and didn’t leave any marks on my clothes either. I always have one in my backpack and car for a quick freshener when I need it.
Young Living Deodorant: This brand seemed to last a little bit longer than the other options, so that definitely is a plus. This one gives the feel of a traditional deodorant more than the others which is nice, however it is a little bit on the solid side so I felt like I needed to work to get it enough on. It only comes in two scents that aren’t designated as for males or females, but I noticed that one of them does have a much more traditionally masculine scent than the other. They both smell good though!
Essentially Brie 